FAQs

Now this is the most important part of my coaching with you.
Limerence is when your mind gets stuck on a person. You think about them all the time, you hope they like you back, and you start needing their attention to feel good. It feels strong, but it is not real love. It is your brain chasing a feeling that keeps you off balance.

Limerence can take over your thinking. It can make you overthink, lose confidence, chase the wrong person, or ignore your own life. It can make you feel anxious, distracted, or desperate for attention. It pulls you off track and makes dating harder than it should be.

What happens during a mock date?

We sit, talk, and go through a pretend date so you can learn how you communicate, how you act, and what you can improve. It is simple, calm, and focused on learning.

How can limerence affect me?

Alcohol or smoking is not recommended so you stay aware and in control of yourself. If you want to include either, we can discuss it ahead of time and agree on what works.

Are there any physical boundaries?

Yes. This training is fully platonic and professional.
No touching or any form of inappropriate physical contact is allowed. If any boundary is crossed, the session ends immediately with no refund.

The only exception is during approved Neuro Linguistic Programming exercises, and only with your clear permission, which may involve a light touch on the hand, shoulder, or forehead. If you prefer no contact at all, Neuro Linguistic Programming will be done without touch.

No. This is not a real date. It is practice training only. Everything is professional, structured, and focused on helping you learn skills.

How do you help with limerence?

I teach you how to break the cycle. You learn why limerence happens, how to control it, and how to think clearly again. We use simple steps, clear tools, and practice sessions to help you stay steady, confident, and focused on real connection instead of fantasy.

Is this a real date?

Why we use books during coaching?

Hypnosis is a natural state of focused attention where the mind becomes more open to helpful change. It feels similar to being deeply absorbed in a conversation or task.

You remain awake, aware, and in control the entire time. Hypnosis is not sleep and does not involve losing control or being made to do anything against your will.

In this focused state, the mind can more easily adjust habits, emotional responses, and thought patterns that are normally automatic.

Hypnosis is a collaborative process that supports change by working with how the mind already functions.

We use two different books because they help you understand See. Understand. Decide. for limerence and teach you how you want to be loved, appreciated, and find peace in your decisions and relationships. The books make everything simple and clear so you always know what you’re learning and why it matters.

What is hypnosis?

Can I drink alcohol or smoke during the mock date?

What is limerence?

I use practical tools to help men think clearly, regulate emotions, and pursue relationships with confidence instead of anxiety.

• NLP: Rebuilds thinking patterns so you respond with clarity, not overthinking.

• Hypnosis: Calms automatic emotional reactions while you stay fully aware and in control.

• Journaling: A structured way to get thoughts out of your head and make decisions cleanly.

• Ecotherapy: Uses simple outdoor regulation to reduce stress and reset your nervous system.

• Loneliness work: Addresses isolation so it doesn’t drive poor choices or attachment.

• Love & relationships: Teaches healthy pursuit, boundaries, and emotional stability.

The goal is confident pursuit, mutual interest, and stable connection — not chasing, guessing, or proving yourself.

What techniques do I use?